ext_35784 ([identity profile] clauderainsrm.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] therealljidol2013-09-20 02:26 pm

Green Room - Week 18 - Day 1

How do you want Exhibit B to be remembered?

That is the power that is in your hands, right now.

It’s the power that has been in your hands the entire time. But not everyone stops to think about that on a regular basis.

Will it be looked on as welcoming? As divisive? Will the positivity win out or the negativity?

You are the best, and the worst ambassadors LJ Idol has. You go out into the world and either make it look good, or look bad by what you do and what you say.

In the end, more people should be walking away with that feeling you get when you have just walked off a rollercoaster and are just so overwhelmed with emotions… hopefully more people feel the rush of “I want to do that again!!” than are vomiting into the bushes.

One comforting thing is that, regardless of the atmosphere at the end, that I don’t have to worry about who is going to win. I’ve fortunate that the writers have all been of such quality that I knew that no one mattered who ended up in the winner’s circle, that it was going to be someone extremely talented.

The results are up from last night: http://therealljidol.livejournal.com/696245.html
As if the new topic: http://therealljidol.livejournal.com/696365.html

My hope is that Exhibit B will finish out with the same sort of energy that Exhibit A did… with a rush of “I can’t wait until we can do that again!”

[identity profile] porn-this-way.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 02:33 pm (UTC)(link)
hopefully more people feel the rush of “I want to do that again!!” than are vomiting into the bushes.

I fail to see why this is mutually exclusive.

[identity profile] xo-kizzy-xo.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 02:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I think part of the issue is that everyone -- writers as well as those still reading -- are weary. When you're weary one's apt not to have that zing of energy. We've all been there.

When one is weary, it's easy to be snippy, snarky, emotional, etc. It's one of the reasons why I've been trying to stay offline lately. I'm not pointing this solely toward Idol, btw, but because Idol is a huge part of my online life, it's included.

[identity profile] porn-this-way.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 04:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I think a good mix of the two is what keeps things interesting! Okay, you don't wanna be curled up in a ball, howling in agony and projectile barfing, but a little queasiness is just part of the experience and how you know is was a good coaster and not some little dinky pissant kiddie ride or snooze fest horse and buggy through Amish country that might be fun at first but gets old really quick. The best rides are the ones where you can feel the bottom drop out of your stomach at one moment and then be having too much fun to care the next.

[identity profile] porn-this-way.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 04:04 pm (UTC)(link)
LJ Idol poll tax? Fox News is gonna love you!

[identity profile] anyonesghost.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Time to throw the servers into the Boston Harbor!

[identity profile] xo-kizzy-xo.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 04:57 pm (UTC)(link)
If you do that they're going to float right past me!

[identity profile] alycewilson.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed! My most memorable park experiences were the ones where I felt absolutely awful for a moment -- or, for example, my necklace broke off and fell into my bra -- because it gave me a great story. Plus, I could walk away saying, "I survived that."

We rarely remember the rides that are uneventful.

[identity profile] xo-kizzy-xo.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
There's also a full moon out there too.

I have no idea if Mercury is in retrograde, however.

Seriously -- I seldom complain about customers, but we've had some real doozies recently. It's like somebody blew a high frequency horn and they came out of the woodwork.

[identity profile] alycewilson.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:11 pm (UTC)(link)
This is VERY true!

To put it in another context: I tend to be a pretty "laissez-faire" mom, allowing KFP, in our unstructured moments, to play and explore the way he wants (provided he's not doing anything unsafe). But when I'm tired, all my patience goes out the window. I find myself snapping at him for doing the same thing -- such as banging his wooden hammer on different surfaces to check out the sounds -- that I found perfectly acceptable earlier in the week.

Keeping this in mind, I don't know what your plans are, but I would recommend a break of at least a couple months before beginning Season 9. Maybe you could kick it off in January, after the winter holidays are over, when people are feeling energized and renewed? In the meantime, I would love to see the Green Rooms remain active on at least a weekly basis, addressing writing topics and/or proposing topics for people to write for fun.

As always, I'd be happy to brainstorm with you or anyone else via e-mail (shantipoet at gmail).

I tend to be a pretty enthusiastic ambassador for LJI, since so much of the essays and fiction I've written in the last few years that I'm currently either publishing or sharing came from the contest.

[identity profile] kathrynrose.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I have no idea if Mercury is in retrograde, however.

Nope. Not til October.

[identity profile] xo-kizzy-xo.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)
And in a way it seems like it's been longer than a regular season because it was split in two.

[identity profile] kajel.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
ooo, scoop 'em up and hoard them!

[identity profile] anyonesghost.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Or implement an "every LJ server we return costs x amount" policy. ;-)

[identity profile] kathrynrose.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I think Kizzy makes a good point about fatigue. Exhibit A was an anomaly, but every season there are sharp-edged or emotional comments about what "should" have happened in a poll or who's a "better" writer or whatever.

How do we measure the quality of a writer? Imagination? Grammar? Telling a complete story? Literary style? Genre? Likable characters? Emotional reaction?

As the number of contestants gets smaller, are we voting for just the entry from this week? For the overall performance of the season? For the degree of improvement? For the people we just like better?

When we get to the point where everyone's attention is on a handful of people, everything seems more important or less fair. It's like the end of a horse race or a marathon. People watch the whole thing, and they care to some degree or they wouldn't be watching at all, but people don't stand up and yell until the end.

I don't think anyone intentionally wants to hurt anyone else's feelings, but people feel strongly, and things are said. Hell, there have been a couple of things said in the past day or so that have stung me when I read them, but I've never competed this close to the end. I am reminding myself of similar things that have been said in other seasons, and I am making the decision not to take it personally.

I'm a big fan of Idol. There are things I don't like about it, and things I dearly love about it. Sometimes my favorite has won and sometimes not. It's a great group of talented people, and people don't always get along. It's up to each person to decide to remember the good and work through the rough spots.

[identity profile] xo-kizzy-xo.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm gonna need a bigger boat ;)

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
>>The best rides are the ones where you can feel the bottom drop out of your stomach at one moment and then be having too much fun to care the next.<<

Exactly! So where does the head-to-head poll fall on that spectrum? *wink*

[identity profile] roina-arwen.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 06:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, exactly! You're so good at putting all the relevant points together concisely!

[identity profile] ashgaelsonaria.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I am still uncertain if I will do that again.
I have jewelry designs to craft from walnut. Not an easy wood to work but very pritty.
While I could work in writing with this I am uncertain if I should. I am also hopeful of getting a court date for my ssi review - well maybe hopeful is too strong a word more like wishful.

[identity profile] anyonesghost.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 06:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I think that encapsulates it all fantastically.

Even as a reader, one gets caught up in the Idol race, as it were. Everyone is always going to vote for a slightly different reason, and with different criteria, and this can lead to confusion, and words, and bruised feelings. It's not limited to the end game, of course, but it's at its peak right now. (And I can finally say it's way more intense as a participant.)

A lot of people voted in that last poll. It was almost the last two polls combined. And on one hand, that is a fantastic amount of people reading great writing from everyone participating! Awesome!

On the other, a subset of a lot of people are disappointed at the results, either in part or in whole (depending on how they voted).

So it's a hard thing to balance. Time and distance from The Moment will lend perspective, and everyone will calm the H down in time. And the Idol community does lean toward the forces of good rather than the forces of ill ... so we'll get there. Idol usually does.

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[identity profile] ashgaelsonaria.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 06:11 pm (UTC)(link)
January is a buisy month around my place - lots of birthdays.

[identity profile] kathrynrose.livejournal.com 2013-09-20 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks. :) The wonder of it is that was pre-caffeine.

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