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 The results have been posted -  https://therealljidol.dreamwidth.org/1122236.html
A new prompt is up -  https://therealljidol.dreamwidth.org/1122539.html

and I owe everyone some general updates (and a clarification or two):

Hi. I'm Gary. You might remember me from such hits as LJ Idol.  ;) You don't see me as often as I'd like because I'm working nonstop. Actually so much that I recently "hit the wall" which is around the same time that I got in trouble with the new boss for working too many hours late at night... the same new boss who also wants me to "come up with a plan" to get everything done that needs to be done... you know, running at half staff for 6 months, during a transition that took place at the busiest time of year - with technical issues including lack of email for about a week, and even when we got access to that we lost access to all kinds of stuff. Oh, and of course Accounting not being able to send out checks to the people we need to pay. But yes, I will come up with a plan right away to do everything. It's a really good plan. It's called "hire people". HR doesn't even have our job vacancies posted yet - but I worked out a work-around with them and thanks to word odf mouth have two interviews scheduled. One of them today and the other on Monday!!

Based on evcerything we need to do this month, and how long it takes to get someone hired, even if both of them are fantastic applicants who would be perfect for the job and are willing to accept the offer and start right away, they won't be here in time to save us from this Hell Month. But they will make things better going forward. 

Working for this new boss though is going to be "interesting"... the former boss was way too hands off. This one is way too hands on, in the worst way possible. An example - the Director of another department needed us to look into making some corrections for her. So she our boss and said she knew we were swamped BUT was there anyway SHE could do those corrections for her instead... My Director responded that she would be glad to help out - and immediately called me to tell me to "make it a priority"... :O  I was at lunch at the time, and had a meeting immediately following. I told her that I would get to it "this afternoon" and was told "it's already afternoon, I need this done as soon as possible"... Mind you, WE weren't asked to do it, SHE was...  The only good thing to come from that is that I got to mention it to that Director who needed help. (who I'm on really good terms with) She was absolutely horrified that trying to *help us* by not putting one more thing on our plate had backfired so spectacularly...  Well, I guess *two* good things, because my Director's co-workers and boss also got to see her trying to foist it off on one of her coworkers as well by explaining that she was "rusty" on doing a task she's never actually done. 


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Cynthia is feeling MUCH better. She still has the fatigue that hits her in waves and hasn't fully recovered her sense of smell yet. She's working on that by doing the "connect a smell to a memory" trick that apparently is what they tell you to do. 

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re: my old boss Kim.  I mentioned going to her Celebration of Life because I honestly thought that I'd posted about her. Apparently I had not. I mentioned it on Facebook, not here. She wasn't my most recent boss. She was my old boss's boss... a couple bosses ago.  :) (She had the job which is now MY supervisor if that makes any sense.)   Anyway, this is the article about what happened: https://www.wftv.com/news/local/orange-county/deputies-identify-couple-found-dead-apparent-murder-suicide-international-drive/

Her husband had a history of mental health issues, and a gun... and well, that's what ended up happening.  "Not All Guns" "Not All People With a History of Mental Health Issues"... I know.... I know... it's fair to say "Yes All Men" though. Because there's definitely a toxic element that fuels both of those other things into violence that isn't often seen without it. But I digress.... losing Kim was a loss to the entire community.

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and speaking of "loss to the entire community"... Karla.  I actually had to go back to see if she had ever actually played Idol, but as far as I can tell, she didn't. But I know she was a long time voter/supporter. We had quite a few mutual friends from back in the LJ days. She passed away from cancer a few days ago.  A few months ago (seems like a lifetime) when my family visited Santa Fe, she was one of the people that I had reached out to for advice on stuff to do and see... she was a lifetime member of Meow Wolf, and hooked us up with tickets! She said that she wasn't able to meet up and now I have a better understanding of "why"...

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Anyway - make sure that the people who matter to you KNOW it. *looks around the room* Yeah, I have nothing more to say.  ;)   

Seriously though... thank you for helping to keep this place alive and still so much fun! I hope to be on the other side of this personal nightmare at work (that I volunteered for by staying to keep things going... what was I thinking????) in a few months. Thanks for your patience and understanding. 

Date: 2022-07-15 11:41 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] roina_arwen
So sorry to hear about those deaths, it’s always difficult losing friends.

Your work situation sounds frustrating. I hope things start to get better and that you can get those folks hired. Thank you for the update, and plowing through with us despite everything going on in Chez Gary. ❤️

Date: 2022-07-15 01:34 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] bleodswean
One is always reminded of that curse - may you live in interesting times. You are BUSY and life and death are still spinning around you. No more walls! Just break through and keep going. You've got this.

Terrible story. Murder/suicide tops the list of trauma to the survivors. And guns, pssht. There are all kinds of ways to do this if one is so inclined. I once knew a traumatized survivor whose father was a veterinarian and used euthanasia drugs on his wife and himself. Women do this, too, G. Usually with water.

Idol does feel strange without you kicking everyone around. I'm curious as to how agonizing this 3 strike thing will get here at the end. With the byes, we reached a point where they were null and void....

Date: 2022-07-15 02:31 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] gunwithoutmusic
I've gotta say that I'm personally thankful that we're using strikes instead of byes, since I might have been eliminated by default last week. :)

That said, I've also been pondering what exactly this is going to look like at the end. It'd be quite a feat to end up with three people at the top: one with no strikes, one with one strike, and one with two strikes, only to see the two-striker somehow make it through each poll until the two others are knocked out.

Date: 2022-07-15 02:57 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] bleodswean
So far, I'm not a fan of the 3 strikes. I liked the elasticity of the byes and I respected the fact that at a certain point in the game, they were no longer of use. It put the writing into a perspective that I found to be valuable, both in terms of my commitment but also the level of the commitment of the competition.

Date: 2022-07-15 10:02 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] banana_galaxy
I highly doubt we'd get to the finals with folks still having strikes, but wow that would certainly be something if it happened.

Date: 2022-07-15 09:44 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] banana_galaxy
I'm also curious to see how long these strikes last, because I do get the feeling they may end up lasting longer than the bye cut off would've been.

Date: 2022-07-15 02:25 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] hwango
I'm not sure if you've mentioned Karla before, or recently? Was she before my time, or might I recognize her LJ name?

Date: 2022-07-17 02:04 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] kizzy
Her last LJ name was manifestress. I can't remember the one before that. She never played but she friended many of the older Idolers like myself whenever one of the prompts came across her friends page. I was never friends with her on FB but we had mutual friends like Gary and a few others so that's how I found out abut her passing.

Date: 2022-07-17 08:09 pm (UTC)
hwango: (Default)
From: [personal profile] hwango
Thanks - unfortunately it sounds like I never got to meet her.

Date: 2022-07-15 03:26 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] dadi
I am really sorry you have to go through all this stress :( and all the more grateful that you are still continuing with us <3

Date: 2022-07-15 09:48 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] banana_galaxy
I appreciate all the updates/clarifications, Gary. Your job especially sounds like a nightmare right now, but I have to say I feel a little glee over the fact that your director got found out about passing the buck to you for something you shouldn't have had to be responsible for.

My work has been reasonably relaxed of late, without any urgent deadlines or major projects I'm focused on. It's allowed me to help or volunteer to help some of my coworkers with some things, and it's nice to be appreciated for that.

Date: 2022-07-16 06:32 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] adoptedwriter
SZO sorry for all your losses, Gary. Glad Cynthia is recovering OK-enough. It's a process, I am sure.

Date: 2022-07-17 02:12 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] kizzy
I haven't been following this season as closely as I have others but I think everyone is distracted lately, whether it's work, the state of the world, post-pandemic breakdowns, etc. I've been having a rough time of late also. What's saving me at the moment is emailing with my college roommate, one of the very few *old* friends I have whose laser like insight into things I normally wouldn't think of scares me in a way that I'm like...uhhhh...

We all need someone like that, I think. I'm blessed to have her perception and empathy at a time when I honestly, truly, REALLY need it.

Gary, do you remember if dabhug played Idol back in the day? She was a good friend of Kate's. She passed quite unexpectedly a week or two ago.

Date: 2022-07-17 08:26 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] drippedonpaper
I'm really glad you have a college roommate like that. I too rely on the insight of others.

Date: 2022-07-19 01:50 pm (UTC)
kizzy: (Default)
From: [personal profile] kizzy
It'll be, OMG, 40 YEARS next year :stunned silence: She's almost 4 years older than me. In spite of what life has thrown her, she's emerged from it not only intact but with so much grace and empathy that it's sometimes difficult to believe there are people like her in this world. She was a voice major, and being her roommate, she dragged me to all these classical concerts and recitals. I developed a lifelong love of choral music as a result, something which Kate and I bonded over back in the day.

Date: 2022-07-17 08:28 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] drippedonpaper
Gosh, I remember dabhug. She was only 2 years younger than me. I'm sad to hear she has passed :(

Date: 2022-07-19 01:54 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] kizzy
She had PKD (polycystic kidney disease), something of which she wasn't shy discussing. It's a degenerative genetic mutation from what I understand. She posted a lot about the disease itself on FB and had her "PKD tribe", including her sister, for lack of a better term. I think, maybe, for the last couple of years she was frequently in and out of the hospital, asked for prayers, etc. She apparently passed in her sleep with no prior warning.

Date: 2022-07-19 01:55 pm (UTC)
kizzy: (Default)
From: [personal profile] kizzy
I'll look for it. I don't think there was an obituary because she didn't want a service. The only info I have right now is from her FB.

Date: 2022-07-17 08:30 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] drippedonpaper
Wow, Gary. So much, all at once. Hugs, hugs. Nothing I can say can solve any of your issues. Just please know we are all rooting for you!

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